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Crystals for a Happy Home

Rose Quartz, Amethyst, Citrine, Selenite

A happy and harmonious home is filled with compassion, understanding, and abundance. Set your intention to invite harmony with rose quartz, amethyst, and citrine.

Compassion is the capacity to feel for those in emotional or physical pain. It opens your heart in sympathy.

Understanding is a mental or intellectual grasp of the situation.

Abundance is having plenty.

3 crystals that support your intention

The three crystals that I use and recommend are:

  • Rose Quartz for Compassion
  • Amethyst for Understanding
  • Citrine for Abundance

These crystals are affordable, easy to obtain and come in a variety of sizes and shapes. You may already be familiar with their healing properties and other attributes. This is why I recommend them to support your happy home.

I also recommend communicating with your housemates about what you plan to do and why. They may support your efforts wholeheartedly and choose to participate in the process. They may appreciate your intention but not choose to be involved in the process. They may also not be supportive at all.

Be mindful of what response you receive and let it guide your choices.

Rose Quartz for Compassion

Rose quartz vibrates at the frequency of the energy center at your heart. Your heart governs the physical areas of chest breasts, arms, and hands.

Energetically rose quartz stimulates Universal love for all and encourages you to reach out and offer support, to hold up those in need.

Compassion may encourage you to find ways to reduce the suffering of others, including modifying your own actions if you are a contributing factor.

Amethyst for Understanding

Amethyst holds a higher frequency and connects with the energy centers at your brow and crown. Your brow is the center of understanding and intuition while your crown connects you with your guidance.

Energetically amethyst supports a calm and open mind with the ability to understand information. 

Understanding allows you to recognize the reason for the actions of others, how your actions affected them, and possible resolutions to conflict.

Citrine for Abundance

Citrine resonates with the energy center at your solar plexus. Your solar plexus is the home of your ego, well, and drive.

Energetically, citrine invites self-confidence and a healthy sense of self.

Self-confidence leads to healthy situations that stimulate abundance in whatever makes you feel wealthy.

How to use these crystals in your home

In your living space

Consider where you spend most of your time as a family, this applies to whomever shares your home. This may be a living room, family room, or dining area.

In your living room or family room, set an amethyst cluster on a side table or mantle, or a tower safely in a location where it can influence the entire space.

In your dining room place an amethyst cluster or sphere in the center of your table. 

Add a rose quartz either in the same place as your amethyst or on a separate table.

Even though the focus here is on a happy and harmonious living space, these crystals can be placed in other areas of your home to invite the same energetic support.

Note that both amethyst and rose quartz will lose their color if left in bright or direct sunlight.

For abundance

Place a citrine cluster in the left rear corner of your home to attract abundance. Add green plants and colors like gold and green. If you do add plants, be sure to keep them healthy!

You may also consider what type of abundance you want to attract and add other symbolic elements.

In addition

In addition to amethyst, citrine, and rose quartz inside, you may choose to add sticks of satin spar to set a high vibration perimeter around the outside of your home.

If your home is a square or rectangle, 4 sticks should be adequate. If you have areas that project out from the main building, or your home has an irregular shape, you may choose to place additional sticks at each additional corner.

After you collect your satin spar and do any inside and outside clearing and cleaning that you like to do, especially at doorways or windows, choose a corner at which to start.

From this corner, you will move in a clockwise direction from corner to corner until you have completed walking the perimeter.

As you begin, set your intention to create a perimeter of high vibration around your home. Place a selenite stick against the first corner, then move to the next corner. Set a stick, express your intention and continue until you have completed the perimeter and arrived back at your starting position.

If you live in an apartment or are unable to set the selenite outside the structure in which you reside, place them in the inside corners of your living space. Keep them out of reach of children and animals. This may mean placing them on shelves, curtain rods, or inside cabinets.

After you set your intention and your crystals

Once you set your intention and place your crystals, you may notice a shift in the energy in your home. There may be deeper, more meaningful conversations. Reasons may become clearer. People in your home may begin to step more fully into their personal power.

As your intention begins to manifest, it may influence people differently. Those with a desire for these things may seem to blossom and become more fully themselves. If someone benefits from the disharmony and unhappiness there may be resistant to the changes occurring.

Use your crystals to guide you in feeling compassion and seeking understanding.

Please note that depending on the level of resistance and how it is present, you may choose to work with a professional counselor. Always be mindful of your personal safety. Compassion and understanding do not mean that you should be subject to abuse.

Keeping your intention fresh

Crystals benefit from clearing and intentions should be revisited.

If your crystals begin to lose their luster or the energy in your home seems to shift in a negative way, you may need to consider to be cleaning and clearing.

Amethyst, citrine, and rose quartz can all be cleaned and cleared with running water. You may also choose to use spray air to remove physical residue on clusters.

Because they may fade in sunlight, I do not recommend energetically clearing them with solar energy. Lunar will not impact them negatively.

My preferred means of clearing energetic residue include sound and other crystals. Ringing bells, playing loud music, or clapping your hands near your stones can bring them back to their perfect vibration and remove residue.

Using high vibration stones like satin spar can also return stones with lesser frequencies to their perfect vibration.

Clean and clear your crystals then return them to their locations.

For your perimeter stones, pick them up clockwise in the order that you place them. You are only cleaning, clearing, and resetting, not releasing. Clean and clear as when you initially set your perimeter. Repeat your intention and walk the perimeter with your housemates if possible to reset.

In summary

Crystals can support your intentions.

Three crystals that can support your intention of a happy, harmonious household when placed in your environment are amethyst, citrine, and rose quartz.

Amethyst aids in understanding, comprehending actions and motivation.

Citrine invites abundance, the presence of affluence or wealth.

Rose quartz supports compassion, the capacity to feel for others who are in pain.

In addition to these crystals, satin spar can help you to create a high vibrational perimeter around your residence.

It is difficult to predict how others will respond to your actions. Keep your personal safety in mind.

Clean, clear, and reset your crystals as needed.

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